Here is a little summary of the fruit of the Spirit, from Galatians 5, and their counterfeits.
Agape – love
Definition – A settled disposition of delight in a person and a resolve to serve them for their honor and their thriving life, not for what the person brings you.
Opposite – Fear, self-protection, and use of people as objects to serve oneself; narcissism
Counterfeit – Selfish affection. Helping someone but really serving self. Drawn not to the person, but to how this person’s love or affection makes you feel about yourself. Co-Dependence
Chara – joy
Definition – Delight in God and his salvation for sheer beauty and worth of who he is.
Opposite – Hopelessness, despair, boredom
Counterfeit – Elation that comes with blessings not the Blesser! Mood swings based on circumstances.
Irene – peace
Definition – Confidence and rest in the wisdom and sovereignty of God more than your own
Opposite – Anxiety and worry
Counterfeit – Indifference, apathy, not caring about something. “It doesn't matter.”
Makrothumia – patience
Definition – Ability to endure suffering without falling apart. To suffer joyfully, slow to anger
Opposite – Bitterness and irritation toward God and others.
Counterfeit – Cynicism. Self-righteousness, "I am better than this."; Carelessness, "This is beneath me."
Chrestotes – kindness
Definition – Seeking to benefit others without the need for recognition or appreciation
Opposite – Envy. Self-seeking. Unable to rejoice in other’s joy. Make things all about yourself.
Counterfeit – Manipulative good deeds. “Right hand knowing what left hand is doing.” Self-congratulation and self-righteousness. Humble-brags.
Agathosune – goodness (generosity)
Definition – Willingness to give to others for their good; self-sacrificial; useful; generosity.
Opposite – Carelessness; self-glory; greedy.
Counterfeit – Giving so that others recognize your giving. The act of giving supersedes the value of receiver of the gift.
Pistis – faithfulness
Definition – Trustworthiness. Loyalty. Integrity. To be principle-driven, committed, utterly reliable. True to one’s word.
Opposite – Opportunist. Fair-weather friend. Liar. Manipulator.
Counterfeit – Love without truth. Co-dependent. Flatterer. Being loyal when you should be willing to confront or challenge.
Prautas – gentleness (humility)
Definition – Self-forgetfulness. Counting oneself has holding a lower rank or position, but with a deep inner security.
Opposite – Superiority: self-absorbed self-aggrandizement. Looking down on others as less important.
Counterfeit – Inferiority: self-absorbed, self-consciousness, self-pitying.
Egkrateia – self-control
Definition – Ability to choose the important or right thing over the urgent or immediate thing.
Opposite – An, impulsive, uncontrolled person.
Counterfeit – Willpower through pride or slow-played manipulation; perfectionism